Mary Dieckman

Mary D Dieckman (Huber)

Thursday, December 30th, 1948 - Thursday, October 8th, 2020
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Mary D. Dieckman, age 71 of the Parlin section of Sayreville passed away on Thursday, October 8, 2020 at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital in New Brunswick. Born in Newark she had resided in Parlin for the past 45 years. Before her retirement she was the Owner and Operator of Mary D’s Deli in Sayreville for 5 years and previously she was employed by Dairy Stores Inc, where she was a District Manager for Krauszer Stores for 25 years. Mary was a member of the Ironbound Irish-American Association in Newark and the East Side High School Alumni Association in Newark.

She is predeceased by her parents Albert and Helen Huber and her brother Albert Huber. Surviving are her children and their spouses Rose and John Policastro-Stephens of South Amboy, Gennaro and Lori Nappi of Staten Island, Dawn Blazas and her fiancé Jeremy Ryan of Sayreville and Michael Dieckman of Sayreville, her grandchildren Damian, John-Tyler, Vincent, James and Matthew, her brother Robert and his wife Honey of Lindenhurst, NY, her sister-in-law Beverly Huber of South Plainfield, many nieces, nephews and cousins and her beloved granddog Max.

Funeral services will be held 10am Wednesday at the Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home, 15 Cherry Lane, Parlin with entombment to follow at Holy Cross Cemetery in North Arlington.

Calling hours at the funeral home will be Tuesday from 4pm to 8pm. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made in Mary’s name to Deborah Heart and Lung Center at

Due to current COVID-19 restrictions, please note that a maximum of 100 visitors will be allowed inside the funeral home at once and masks must be worn at all times. Letters of condolence, directions and completed arrangements may be found at
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  • Visitation

    Tuesday, October 13th, 2020 | 4:00pm - 8:00pm
    Tuesday, October 13th, 2020 4:00pm - 8:00pm
    Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home
    15 Cherry Lane
    PARLIN, NJ 08859
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
  • Service

    Wednesday, October 14th, 2020 | 10:00am
    Wednesday, October 14th, 2020 10:00am
    Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home
    15 Cherry Lane
    PARLIN, NJ 08859
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
  • Interment

    Holy Cross Cemetery, North Arlington
    340 Ridge Road
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Private Condolence

John Ross

Posted at 12:21pm
Sorry for your loss. Know that you are all in our thoughts & prayers in this time of sorrow. Trust in God.
Uncle John / Aunt Mary Anne.

M. Esposito

Posted at 09:26pm
Dear Dawn, Michael and Family,
Our deepest condolences to you. Wishing you peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Marie and Rick Esposito

Ellen McElroy Posted at 05:17pm

My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Mary Huber Diekman. She will be greatly missed by me and all who knew and loved her. Ellen Mc Elroy

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