In Memory of





Obituary for Arlene T. Seibel (Pankewicz)

Arlene T. Pankewicz Seibel, age 72 of Parlin, peacefully passed away on Saturday, April 1, 2023 at St. Peter’s Hospital in New Brunswick. Born and raised in Jersey City to the late Paul and Margaret Pankewicz, she has lived in Parlin for 46 years. She was a graduate of St. Aloysius Academy in Jersey City. Before her retirement, Arlene worked as an office manager for Somerset Surgical Group in Somerville. She loved spending time with her family and her fur babies. She was a true animal lover and is surely with her many animals who had crossed over the rainbow bridge.

Arlene is survived by her beloved husband of 52 years, Fred J. Seibel, Jr of Parlin; her loving children and their spouses Fred Matthew and Jamie Seibel of Middletown, Cascia Deleon and her fiancé Ed Feetham of WA, and Dana Lynn and Sergio Livingston of MN; her cherished grandson Damien Livingston; her brother Paul Pankewicz of TX; her sister-in-law Catherine Bindewald of AZ; and a host of other relatives and friends who will miss her dearly.

Funeral services are scheduled for 10:30am on Tuesday at the Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home, 15 Cherry Lane, Parlin, with burial to follow at the NJ Veteran’s Cemetery in Wrightstown, NJ.

Calling hours at the funeral home will take place on Monday from 4pm to 8pm.

Completed arrangements, directions, and letters of condolence to the family may be found by visiting